mongodb many to many without join table - ruby-on-rails

Question

Originally, I specified a relationship where contact has_many services. Therefore, services has a foreign key of contact_id:
class Contact
include Mongoid::Document
field :name, type: String
end
class Service
field :name, type: String
field :contact_id, type: Integer
end
Now there is a possibility to add an additional contact to a service, so service has many contacts. However, the contacts that are added are ones that already exist independently. So I do not want to embed one entity inside another. A contact and service will always live independently. No embedding.
So should I just store the ids of the contacts inside an array of Service? In other words, my new models will look like this:
class Contact
include Mongoid::Document
field :name, type: String
end
class Service
field :name, type: String
field :contact_id, type: Integer
field :contact_ids, type: Array, default: []
end
Or is there a better solution to address the many to many problem here (without embedding one document in another)?

Answer 1

For the Many-To-Many, you don't have 36 options : you actually have 2 :
Array of IDs on One side like you did
Array of IDs on Both sides.
The cool thing with the "both sides" solution is that you can find query documents from both collections to get the links.
Example with books and authors :
db.books.findOne()
{
_id: 1,
title: "The Great Gatsby",
authors: [1, 5]
}
db.authors.findOne()
{
_id: 1,
firstName: "F. Scott",
lastName: "Fitzgerald",
books: [1, 3, 20]
}